Vi er fhv. DIS Værtsfamilie Kirsten Mahr & Leif Olsen

Danielles brev / Danielle's letter

Direktør Anders Uhrskovs brev  / letter

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2015-04-05

  Ønsket om indsigt

På baggrund af vort kendskab til Danielle ønskede vi naturligvis først og fremmest indsigt i, hvorfor hun - 7 år efter at have boet hos os - pludselig anklager Leif for et sexovergreb, som beskrevet under punktet Chokket

Vi har stadig hendes håndskrevne afskedshilsen til os:

Have a wonderful Christmas 12/19/1996

 Dear Kirsten and Leif 

It seems like only a few days ago that I arrived in Denmark, and now in just a few hours I will be returning to the United States, coming from a larger family, I have often felt lost in the shuffle, but I have enjoyed being “the only child here.” I can’t tell you how much I loved having my own bathroom. I anticipate it will be quite a difficult switch to eating the Floridanian subtropical fish for I have grown to like the cold-water fish much more, and I will always remember all the blackberries, apricots, grapes, plums, tomatoes, and potatoes that grow in your backyard. I hope you will let me share my oranges and grapefruit from my backyard with you. I really enjoyed cooking meals for you for I do not think anyone else has ever made remarks about it. You have made me feel so comfortable and welcome in your home, and I have really been thankful for this because sometimes I am not sure where my home is – Florida, Ohio, or other places I have studied or lived in the past few years. It has been so good to know that I have a home in Denmark. All the conversations with Leif have been very helpful for I am now thinking about myself and my future in a different way, and Kirsten, your enthusiasm for your work and the tenderness you show to your patients has been an inspiration to me. I hope when I become a doctor I can treat my patients the way you do. Thanks for a wonderful four months and a lot of pleasant memories.

With much love, Danielle XXXXXX

Vi ønskede at vide , hvorfor hun fremkom med denne anklage mod Leif, hvad, der var sket med hende siden hun rejste sådan en anklage, hvornår det påståede overgreb skulle have fundet sted, om hun mente det var voldtægt eller voldtægtsforsøg, mm

Vi var heldigvis holdt op med at have studerende boende, da vi modtog anklagen.

Vi var på forhånd indforstået med, at DIS ikke ønskede at have os som værtsfamilie med en sådan anklage hængene over hovedet,

så vi sendte et brev til DIS' direktør Anders Uhrskov med anmodning om at få et møde for at få indsigt i den nærmere baggrund for anklagen og få indsigt i korrespondancen mellem Danielle og DIS, især da parterne ikke ville politianmelde sagen.

 

Vi fik følgende "imødekommende" svar fra direktør Anders Uhrskov:

 Vi så nu ingen anden udvej end at bede vor advokat om at hjælpe os med

  1. at få bemærkningen om os i DIS' register database slettet,

  2. at få gentaget vores ønske om indsigt i e-mail korrespondancen med Danielle, og

  3. at få indsigt i det evalueringsskema, der beskylder os for verbal chikane, og som var anledningen til, at vi blev registreret i DIS' database for "inappropriate behavior"

Se punktet Desperationen om hvorfor vi ikke fik indsigt